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Are you Kind To God?

Thursday, August 10, 2017 by Ron Carlson

Brother in Christ,

Are you kind to God?

We shouldn’t need to be convinced about how kind our living God is to you and me.

"He is so rich in kindness and grace that he purchased our freedom with the blood of his Son and forgave our sins." (Ephesians 1:7)

I can get so focused on wanting God to continually be kind to me that I don’t focus on the importance of how to be kind to Him.

“Does everything in my life fill His heart with gladness, or do I constantly complain because things don’t seem to be going my way? A person who has forgotten what God treasures will not be filled with joy. It is wonderful to remember that Jesus Christ has needs which we can meet—'Give Me a drink.' (John 4:7). How much kindness have I shown Him in the past week? Has my life been a good reflection on His reputation?” (From My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers)

So how does that happen? How do we realistically give Jesus a drink? Here’s one way:

“Then these righteous ones will reply, ‘Lord, when did we ever see you hungry and feed you? Or thirsty and give you something to drink? Or a stranger and show you hospitality? Or naked and give you clothing? When did we ever see you sick or in prison and visit you?' And the King will say, ‘I tell you the truth, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me!’" (Matthew 25:37-40)

Our God loves to see His people being kind to His people. But that’s not always easy is it? If you’re like me, when it comes to kindness, there are some people who are just plain challenging. They have said hurtful things or been rude. They are demanding, self-centered or just plain irritating to be around. My tendency is to avoid them, shun them or try to spend as little time as possible with them. If we truly have a desire to be kind to God, if we are truly walking in the spirit, what do you think our response should be to them? Would Jesus want us to experience some godly sorrow over how we’ve acted toward these challenging ones?

"For the kind of sorrow God wants us to experience leads us away from sin and results in salvation. There’s no regret for that kind of sorrow." (2 Corinthians 7:10)

If we’re truly willing to repent about this, the Lord will turn our sorrow into gladness. Then if we’re willing and asking, the one who created kindness, will show us ways we can be kind to Him in return. It’s part of becoming the person He wants you and me to be. Yes, that kind.

Ron

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Are you Kind To God?

Thursday, August 10, 2017 by Ron Carlson

We shouldn’t need to be convinced about how kind our living God is to you and me.

"He is so rich in kindness and grace that he purchased our freedom with the blood of his Son and forgave our sins." (Ephesians 1:7)

I can get so focused on wanting God to continually be kind to me that I don’t focus on the importance of how to be kind to Him. 

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Thursday, August 3, 2017 by Ron Carlson

I recently received an email from one of my favorite schoolmates. What made him a favorite? We laughed a lot together. I would often bring my Dad’s huge joke book to school and during lunch breaks, we’d read jokes out loud. My friend’s email reminded me how we knew the best jokes by number. So when we’d see each other in the halls instead of repeating the whole joke we’d make each other laugh just by saying number 563 or 1782. The resulting quizzical looks from those around us just added to the fun. All this to say, when was the last time you had a good laugh?

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If you are still reading, I applaud you. Confessing sins isn’t a popular topic. So, let me confess: I’m not very good at it. Why is that? Am I foolish enough to think there isn’t much to confess, or do I not want to face the reality of how far I fall short? Whatever the reason, there are no excuses. I am a sinner and that means there are sins to confess.

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When I attended my kids' track meets some of my favorite events were the relay races. I got a big kick out of watching the most crucial part of the event: the passing of the baton. Your team could have incredibly fast individual sprinters, but if they mistimed or fumbled the baton pass, the race was usually lost. To me, being a follower of Jesus includes an element of a relay race. First Jesus has welcomed you to the team. He has called you, saved you, loved you, forgiven you and given you eternal life. With all those blessings, you start running a different race.

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