Men,

Do you have a close friend?

This morning we were talking about the level of friendship we have in our small group. The question came up, if something happened where we needed help at a time when others were likely sleeping, would we pick up the phone and call one of the guys anyway? Unfortunately, most of us felt we probably wouldn't make the call. For many of us there's some cultural history to situations like this. I don't know about you, but I was raised with a philosophy that taught, you just shouldn't burden other people with your problems or make them have to go out of their way to help you.  What that train of thought also means is, you expect others not to  burden you with their troubles either. Many men like that approach, until they get in a deep hole. Then at a time when they really need someone, there's no one to count on. I am seeing this in a number of ways in the men's ministry right now. Men who've gone it alone until they get in deep trouble. At at time like that they find out it's not good to be a lone ranger. It is good to have a close friend.

A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. (Proverbs 18:24)

A friend loves at all times (Proverbs 17:17a)

That's one big reason I hope you are coming to the men's retreat. For many of us it has provided a rare opportunity to build friendships, to build bonds and to begin forming what we are praying will be a band of close Christian brothers. So close, they would be willing to make or receive a call from a friend at 3:00 a.m.

Ron

The last day for the early bird sign up for the men's retreat is this Saturday at the men's breakfast. There are only about 20 spots left for the retreat. Also, because Easter Service is at three different times this Sunday we will have to alter our prayer time together. We will plan to meet between the second and third service in the prayer room...somewhere around 11:10 a.m.